STOP!!!!

At a young age we begin the process of blaming others for our own actions and I will be the first to stand up and say I did this.  You are getting fussed at by your parents or an adult and they ask you why did you do that.  Typically the first response is they made me do it or I didn't want to do that but everyone said I had to.  So, begins the process of the famous blame game that starts at a young age and stays with us into our adult life.  At what point do we STOP blaming others and start taking responsibility for our actions and our own life?  When will we STOP this victim mentality and own up to our own stuff?

The issue with the victim mentality is that it is the easy way out and maybe that is what is wrong?  It is so much easier to blame others instead of taking the difficult road and taking responsibility for your own actions.  How is one to grow if they keep blaming everyone else except themselves?  It is time to STOP blaming others and start to take responsibility for yourself.  At the end of the day no one cares more about you and your growth than YOU.  Instead of taking the toxic route of playing the blame game instead travel the wonderful road of taking responsibility for yourself and experience the growth that comes with it.